Comments for SHelperNet - Helping you help your Self. http://shelper.kdas.de/blog A blog dedicated to self-improvement in all its facets. Because you can always achieve more. Fri, 14 Aug 2009 12:21:35 +0200 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.2 hourly 1 Comment on Some self-improvement rules by carol http://shelper.kdas.de/blog/what-to-do/2009_07_30/30/some-self-improvement-rules/comment-page-1#comment-8 carol Fri, 14 Aug 2009 12:21:35 +0000 http://shelper.kdas.de/blog/?p=30#comment-8 "*When people feel so down and low about themselves, help them move up. Don’t go down with them. They’ll pull you down further and both of you will end up feeling inferior." if I may add, when a person is holding you back, it is best to leave him down there instead of letting opportunities pass just because you are being kind to this person. I've always believed that our only obligation is to ourselves and what we extend to others is only an excess of what we already have. we can never improve our ways if we keep on thinking of other people who cannot do it by themselves. “*When people feel so down and low about themselves, help them move up. Don’t go down with them. They’ll pull you down further and both of you will end up feeling inferior.”

if I may add, when a person is holding you back, it is best to leave him down there instead of letting opportunities pass just because you are being kind to this person. I’ve always believed that our only obligation is to ourselves and what we extend to others is only an excess of what we already have. we can never improve our ways if we keep on thinking of other people who cannot do it by themselves.

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